How do you feel about your partner saying/calling your name during sex?
Bonus round: How do you feel about them calling you, still during sex, by a nickname? Dirty name? "Who's your daddy?" (and whatever the reverse would be)
It makes me kinda uncomfy, and I feel really awkward saying their name during sex as well. I am a big fan of moaning and groaning, though. Leave the names out of it!
but i normally won't say anything similar back. i just stick with sounds..
plus.. if you're not in a monogamous relationship, and theres a few ppl you're hooking up with, you never want to say the wrong name.. thats always bad...
I find hearing my name (legal or nicknames) during sex to be HIGHLY distracting. I totally step out of the moment and think, "Huh? What? Did you need something?"
"Baby" and similar endearments depend up how they're said. Dirty names = mostly good (though again, depends on intent)
"Who's your daddy?" confused the hell out of me, totally removed me from the experience, and made me (to this day) wonder what I should have said back. I have not been trained for that scenario. Plus, I have father issues - so it's not a good place to go with me. "Who's your papi?" might work better (though, now, there's a 50/50 change it would make me think of Steve/PantsParty/PapiChulo)
Just call em all Darlin' or Honey, or somesuch - then you will never call out the wrong name. Or just go out with guys called Steve - I once went out with four guys called Steve, one after the other.
Now that was confusing when I then went out with a Paul!
I don't like names, but I do like endearments. Its kinda nice to know they think they are with someone!
LOL - I used to call everyone Dave or Chris, cause I knew so many of them. Now I call people, regardless of gender, Fred - just because. But none of that is in bed - I still don't like hearing, or calling, names during sex. But porn-movie style narrative ("Oh, yes [whatever they are currently doing]!!") ?? Oh, I'm ALL over that!!
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but i normally won't say anything similar back. i just stick with sounds..
plus.. if you're not in a monogamous relationship, and theres a few ppl you're hooking up with, you never want to say the wrong name.. thats always bad...
I do like it when the guy I'm seeing calls me "baby", but only the guy I'm seeing. If it's a one-nighter and he calls me "baby" it's over!
Now that was confusing when I then went out with a Paul!
I don't like names, but I do like endearments. Its kinda nice to know they think they are with someone!
now keeping them separate so my friends who know i'm talking about.. we have nick names for them...
nice guy, new guy, anal guy, clingy guy, etc etc.....